Single NYC woman swears off dating after having the ‘worst first date’ with an older ‘egomaniac’

Oh no, that’s bad.

Dating successful today’s integer property is nary easy feat. And while it’s normal to person nan occasional bad first date, 1 Gen Z woman’s caller acquisition pinch an “egomaniac” almost doubly her property took nan cake.

As galore young daters do, 25-year-old Caitlin took to TikTok to debrief aft a chaotic — not successful a bully measurement — first date, and collectively people’s jaws were connected nan level aft proceeding her picture what happened.

In a video pinch complete 400,000 views captioned, “Storytime astir my day pinch a 43-year-old egomaniac,” nan Gen Zer shared her experience: “About a period agone I went connected nan worst day I’ve ever been connected successful New York City and I request to talk astir it.”

She met nan feline while retired astatine a “random bar” successful nan West Village. “He was decidedly older, which I’m not usually into but he seemed really cool and bully and good dressed and each nan things. So erstwhile he asked maine out, I said yeah.”

The adjacent week, she met this older alien astatine a barroom successful nan West Village and upon arriving, she noticed that “he’s sitting astatine a array pinch six of his feline friends,” which evidently is bizarre for a day of immoderate benignant but particularly a first date.

“Then 2 interns for his institution besides subordinate us. I conscionable consciousness really uncomfortable correct disconnected nan bat,” Caitlin explained successful her viral video.

Her day must person sensed she was emotion this measurement truthful he requested a seperate array for nan 2 of them.

This bad first day did not spell arsenic planned, Dmytro Panchenko – stock.adobe.com

Yes, things sewage progressively worse from there.

The Gen Zer’s day asked really aged she was and acted relieved erstwhile she said she was 25 because “21 and 22-year-olds can’t support up pinch him intelluctually but he feels excessively bad for 30-year-olds because they’re truthful desperate.”

The feline continued to talk astir himself, show disconnected pictures of him pinch celebrities which caused nan female to deliberation to herself, “This is truthful embarrassing for a 43-year-old…”

The meal ended and aft she declined nan goon’s induce for a portion adjacent door, he told her he wouldn’t bid her an Uber location unless she continued nan nighttime pinch him.

She tin intelligibly get herself a thrust location but she ignored her gut and still went retired pinch him. The aforesaid weird shenanigans continued, successful which she yet called it a nighttime and while waiting for her thrust home, she heard his friend successful nan inheritance inquire her day if he sewage “rid of that woman yet?”

Well, nan commenters really went disconnected connected this guy.

“He conscionable wanted to impressment THE MEN… Because a man is what they really want.”

“You’re excessively gorgeous to not person stronger boundaries.”

People successful nan remark conception of Caitlin’s video couldn’t judge nan audacity of nan feline she was connected a day with. eldarnurkovic – stock.adobe.com

“He was consecutive up conscionable showing you disconnected for free that’s wild.”

And sadly this is conscionable 1 of galore bad dates women person been connected lately successful today’s bizarre making love world.

Another female went connected a first date pinch a feline who didn’t connection to salary for her coffee — truthful she quickly put a extremity to immoderate imaginable dates he mightiness inquire her on.

Khristina is an Australian influencer who shared a screenshot of a matter speech betwixt nan inexpensive feline she went connected a java day pinch successful a TikTok video that read:

“So you’re canceling nan day because I didn’t salary for your java connected nan first date?” nan man asked.

Yes,” she replied.

“Well you decidedly person an cognition problem,” he responded.

“I don’t person an cognition problem. You person a problem pinch my attitude, which is not my problem,” she argued.

She mentioned really group tin do what they want — which intends she doesn’t person to spell connected a day pinch a feline who can’t moreover salary for a $5 coffee.