Woman Questions Husband’s Relationship with Coworker After Catching Them Texting During a Date Night

A female took to Reddit to inquire if she was "overreacting" astir her husband's adjacent narration pinch a coworker.

The female shared that her 34-year-old hubby started a caller occupation a fewer months agone and quickly became adjacent pinch 1 of his coworkers. While nan female says she's not a suspicious person, she feels different astir this peculiar friendship.

The female shares that her hubby and his coworker matter each nan time, and he seems distracted since he is ever connected his telephone — moreover during their day nights.

While they were retired 1 night, she saw him sending memes and sharing wrong jokes. When she asked astir it, he said, "It's a activity thing, you wouldn't get it." Her hubby moreover has a nickname for his coworker, which nan poster notes is uncommon for him to do.

"I tried bringing it up gently, saying it made maine consciousness a small near retired and weird, and he sewage protect fast, said I was being controlling, jealous, and insecure, and that, 'not everything has to beryllium a threat,' " nan female writes. 

She noted that she antecedently met nan coworker successful question, describing her arsenic "polite but distant" and "like she couldn't attraction little astir maine aliases who I was to him." Since then, nan female said it feels like she has been "pushed further to nan side."

"He talks much astir her than immoderate of his different friends aliases coworkers, and honestly? I'm starting to consciousness for illustration a 3rd instrumentality successful my ain relationship," nan female shares.

"I haven't accused him of cheating aliases thing dramatic; I don't moreover deliberation thing beingness is happening, but nan affectional closeness conscionable seems inappropriate. Or possibly it's not. I don't know. That's why I'm here," nan female confesses to nan Reddit community. 

People successful nan comments of nan station told nan female that moreover if it wasn't a beingness affair, it's clear that nan man's narration pinch his coworker goes beyond nan workplace.

"Sounds for illustration it's much than a friendship. His defensiveness and insulting you and dismissing your feelings, successful my sentiment intends he's emotionally attached to her, particularly pinch nan nickname. Have you publication their messages by chance? What different reddish flags person you noticed?" 1 personification inquired. 

"I would beryllium really wounded by this. To me, this is an affectional affair," different personification wrote.